Friday 6 December 2019

#نصائح حتى تعيش مثل هذه اللقطة 🦁

1- أن دخلت قتالآ كن اول من يضرب واضرب بشدة.
2- لا تتزوج من أمرأة ما على أمل أن تتغير لاحقاً !
3- قبل أن تُقدم على الزواج من احداهن أخطبها لمدة ستة أشهر على الاقل ! لتتعرف ع أخلاقها و محاسنها.
4- فاجيء من تحب بهديه غير متوقعه على الاطلاق. 
5- لا تتحجج بنقص الوقت فيومك هو نفس يوم العالم 
6- أتفق على أشارة بينك وبين زوجتك تدل على أنك تحبها٠ وقم بها في الاجتماعات العائلية دون أن ينتبه أحد أليك 
7- أحذر قبل أقراض المال لأصدقائك فقد تخسر الأثنين! 8- اختر زوجتك بعناية لانها مسئوله عن 90% من سعادتك او تعاستك 
9- أذا أستعرت شيئاً أكثر من مرتين ...فاشتريه 
10- لا تتوقع من الناس الاستجابه لنصائحك التي لاتقوم انت بها من الاساس 
11- احترم خصوصية اطفالك واقرع الباب قبل دخوالك الى غرفهم 
12- لاتسرع على الاطلاق عندما تقود السيارة وأطفالك في داخلها 
13- لاتترك عملك قبل أن تأمن غيره 
14- عندما تلعب مع اطفالك دعهم يربحون 
15- .كن افضل صديق لزوجتك 
16- صافح بقوة 
17- الراحة الدائمة لاحقاً تحتاج القليل من التعب حالا 
18- ما أن تُعجب بشخص ما أخبره فاحيانا لايسعنا ذالك الا مرة واحدة فقط 
19- عندما تدخل غرفة ما او اجتماع ما ادخل وكأنك تملك المكان.


Saturday 23 November 2019

Life


"How do I handle life?"


This is a question that many of us ask ourselves.

You'd be surprised that the house we live in actually gives us a lot of answers.


- The roof says: "Aim high."

- The fan says: "Be cool."

- The clock says: "Value time."

- The calendar says: "Be up to date."

- The wallet says: "Save now for the future."

- The mirror says: "Always examine yourself."

- The lamp says: "Light up other's life."

- The wall says: "Share other's burdens."

- The window says: "Expand your vision."

- The floor says: "Always be down to earth."

- The stairs say: "Watch each step you take."

- The toilet bowl says: "When it's time to let go, just let it go."

- The toilet paper says: " Expect ... every day."

(Author unknown. Used with slight adaptation.)



What other items in our house can give us answers about how to handle life?

Would love to hear from you so that we can add to the list above. 😃


Wishing all a great weekend!

Tuesday 24 September 2019

القوانين الروحية الأربعة :


القوانين الروحية الأربعة :

1. "الشخص الذي يدخل حياتك هو الشخص المناسب" :
لا أحد يأتي إلى حياتنا بالصدفة
كل من ياتي معلم .

2. "ما يحدث هو الشيء الوحيد الذي يمكنه أن يحدث"
لا يحدث إلا ما يجب أن يحدث .
لذلك لا داعي أن تلوم نفسك :
"لو كنت قد تصرفت هكذا لما حدث هذا أو ذاك ... ".
كل موقف نتعرض له هو الدرس المثالي للتعلم حتى لو كان يبدو لنا غير ذلك.

3. " كل شيء يبدأ في وقته المناسب" كل بداية تأتي بوقتها و فقط حين يحين أوانها لا قبل و لا بعد .
فلا داعي للندم على شيء تظن أنك تاخرت بإنجازه .
لا تقلق
الكون لا يلعب النرد
كل شيء محسوب حسابه .

4.القانون الرابع والأخير: "عندما ينتهي شيء ما
دعه يذهب و تقبل الوضع الجديد . امضي قدما
افهم أن كل شيء بالكون يتحرك و يتغير . لذلك كن مستعداً دائما للتغييرات بحياتك
لا تتعلق .

Wednesday 18 September 2019

الاستشارة

⚫ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻐﺮﺏ ﻭﻓﻲ ﺃﻭﺍﺋﻞ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﻥ ﺍﻟﻤﺎﺿﻲ ﺍﺷﺘﺮﻯ ﺭﺟﻞ ﺃﺭﺽ ﻓﻲ ﻣﻨﻄﻘﺔ ﻳﻘﺎﻝ ﺃﻧﻬﺎ ﻣﻠﻴﺌﺔ ﺑﺎﻟﺬﻫﺐ .

ﺍﺷﺘﺮﻯ ﻫﺬﺍ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﺁﻟﻴﺎﺕ ﺑﺴﻴﻄﺔ ﻭﺑﺪﺃ ﺍﻟﺤﻔﺮ ﺑﺤﺜﺎً ﻋﻦ ﺍﻟﺬﻫﺐ، ﺑﻌﺪ ﻋﺪﺓ ﺃﻳﺎﻡ ﻋﺜﺮ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻋﺮﻕ ﺫﻫﺒﻲ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻷﺭﺽ ..
ﻓﺮﺡ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻭﻗﺎﻝ ﻫﺬﻩ ﻫﻲ ﺍﻟﺒﺪﺍﻳﺔ ..
ﻭﻓﻌﻼً ﺍﺳﺘﻤﺮ ﺑﺎﻟﺤﻔﺮ ﻭﻫﻮ ﻳﻠﺤﻖ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻕ ﺍﻟﺬﻫﺒﻲ ﻭﻭﺟﺪ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻕ ﻳﺰﺩﺍﺩ ﺛﺨﺎﻧﺔ ﻭﺗﺸﻌﺒﺎً ..
ﺃﺩﺭﻙ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﺃﻥ ﺃﺭﺿﻪ ﻣﻠﻴﺌﺔ ﺑﺎﻟﺬﻫﺐ ﻟﺬﺍ ﻗﺎﻝ ﻟﻨﻔﺴﻪ ﻻ ﺑﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻥ ﺃﺳﺘﺜﻤﺮ ﻓﻲ ﺃﺩﻭﺍﺕ ﺃﻓﻀﻞ ﻭﺃﻃﻠﺐ ﺍﻟﻤﺴﺎﻋﺪﺓ ..
ﻭﻫﻜﺬﺍ ﻃﻤﺮ ﻣﻜﺎﻥ ﺍﻟﺤﻔﺮ ﻭﻋﺎﺩ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺑﻠﺪﺗﻪ .

ﺃﺧﺒﺮ ﻋﺎﺋﻠﺘﻪ ﻭﺑﺎﻉ ﻛﻞ ﻣﺎ ﻟﺪﻯ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﺋﻠﺔ ﺛﻢ ﺍﻧﻄﻠﻖ ..
وﻓﻲ ﻃﺮﻳﻖ ﺍﻟﻌﻮﺩﺓ ﺍﺷﺘﺮﻯ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻛﻞ ﻣﺎ ﻳﻠﺰﻡ ﻣﻦ ﺁﻟﻴﺎﺕ ﻭﺑﺪﺃ ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﻣﻊ ﺃﻓﺮﺍﺩ ﻋﺎﺋﻠﺘﻪ ..
ﻭﻫﻜﺬﺍ ﺑﺪﺃ ﺍﻟﺬﻫﺐ ﻳﺨﺮﺝ ﻋﻠﻴﻬﻢ ﻛﻞ ﻳﻮﻡ ﺃﻛﺜﺮ .

ﺣﺘﻰ ﺟﺎﺀ ﻳﻮﻡ ﻭﺑﺪﺃﺕ ﻛﻤﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺬﻫﺐ ﺑﺎﻟﻨﻘﺼﺎﻥ ..
ﻭﺑﺪﺃﺕ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﻕ ﺑﺎﻻﺧﺘﻔﺎﺀ ..
ﺃﺩﺭﻙ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﺤﻔﺮﻳﺎﺕ ﺳﻮﻑ ﺗﻨﺘﻬﻲ ﻷﻥ ﺍﻟﺬﻫﺐ ﻗﺪ ﻧﻔﺬ ..
ﻓﻤﺎ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻣﻨﻪ ﺇﻻ ﺃﻥ ﺑﺎﻉ ﻛﻞ ﺷﻲﺀ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺠﻢ ﻟﺸﺨﺺ ﺑﺴﻴﻂ ﻭﺑﻤﺒﻠﻎ ﺯﻫﻴﺪ ..
ﻭﻋﺎﺩ ﺑﻤﺎ ﺟﻤﻌﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺫﻫﺐ ﻣﻊ ﻋﺎﺋﻠﺘﻪ .

ﺍﻟﺸﺨﺺ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﺍﺷﺘﺮﻯ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺠﻢ ﻟﻢ ﻳﻘﺘﻨﻊ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺠﻢ ﻗﺪ ﻧﻔﺬ فيه الذهب ﻭﻟﻜﻨﻪ ﻟﻢ ﻳﻜﻦ ﻣﺘﺄﻛﺪﺍً ..
ﻟﺬﺍ ﺍﺳﺘﺪﻋﻰ ﺧﺒﻴﺮ ﺟﻴﻮﻟﻮﺟﻲ ﻭﺩﻓﻊ ﻟﻪ ﻣﻘﺎﺑﻞ ﺗﻘﺮﻳﺮ ﺧﺒﺮﺓ ﻋﻦ ﺃﻣﺎﻛﻦ ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺍﻟﺬﻫﺐ ﻓﻲ ﺃﺭﺿﻪ.

ﺍﻟﺨﺒﻴﺮ ﺩﺭﺱ ﺍﻟﺤﻔﺮﻳﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﺴﺎﺑﻘﺔ ﻭﻧﻮﻋﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺘﺮﺑﺔ، ﺛﻢ ﻗﺎﻝ ﻟﻠﺮﺟﻞ ..
ﻋﺮﻭﻕ ﺍﻟﺬﻫﺐ ﺍﻟﻘﺪﻳﻤﺔ ﻟﻢ ﺗﻨﻔﺬ ﻭﺇﻧﻤﺎ ﻫﻲ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺑﻌﺪ ﻧﺼﻒ ﻣﺘﺮ، ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﻘﻴﻘﺔ ﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﺍﻧﻬﺪﺍﻡ ﻭﻫﻮ ﻣﺎ ﺟﻌﻞ ﻛﻞ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﻕ ﺗﺨﺘﻔﻲ .

ﺣﻔﺮ ﺍﻟﺸﺨﺺ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺑﻌﺪ ﻧﺼﻒ ﻣﺘﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻤﻜﺎﻥ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ
ﺣﺪﺩﻩ ﻟﻪ ﺍﻟﺨﺒﻴﺮ ﻭﻭﺟﺪ ﺫﻫﺐ ﺃﻛﺜﺮ ﻣﻤﺎ ﻭﺟﺪﻩ ﺻﺎﺣﺐ
ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺠﻢ ﺍﻷﻭﻝ ﺑﻌﺸﺮﺍﺕ ﺍﻷﺿﻌﺎﻑ .

ﺳﻤﻊ ﺻﺎﺣﺐ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺠﻢ ﺍﻷﻭﻝ ﺑﺎﻟﻘﺼﺔ، ﻭﻋﺎﺩ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﻤﻜﺎﻥ
ﻟﻴﺮﻯ ﻧﺘﻴﺠﺔ ﺧﻴﺒﺘﻪ ..
ﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﺭﺁﻩ ﺻﺎﺣﺐ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺠﻢ ﺍﻟﺠﺪﻳﺪ ﺗﻮﺟﻪ ﺇﻟﻴﻪ ﻭﻗﺎﻝ ﻟﻪ:
🔸️ ﺃﻧﺖ ﻧﺎﺩﻡ ؟
🔹️ ﻛﻼ
🔸️ ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺃﻧﺖ ﻫﻨﺎ ؟
🔹️ ﺟﺌﺖ ﻟﻜﻲ ﺃﺗﺬﻛﺮ ﺩﻭﻣﺎً ﺃﻧﻨﻲ ﻭﻗﻔﺖ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺑﻌﺪ ﻧﺼﻒ ﻣﺘﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺛﺮﻭﺓ ﻋﻈﻴﻤﺔ .. ﻭﺗﺮﻛﺖ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺜﺮﻭﺓ ﻷﻧﻲ ﺍﺳﺘﺴﻠﻤﺖ ﻋﻨﺪ ﺃﻭﻝ ﻋﻘﺒﺔ ﻓﻲ ﻃﺮﻳﻘﻲ .. ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﻌﻘﺒﺔ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻳﻤﻜﻦ ﺃﻥ ﺃﺗﺠﺎﻭﺯﻫﺎ ﻟﻮ ﺍﺳﺘﻌﻨﺖ ﺑﺮﺃﻱ ﻣﻦ ﻫﻮ ﺃﻋﻠﻢ ﻣﻨﻲ .

💫 همسة :
الاستشارة :
هي فن استخدام العقول ؛ فبدلا من أن تفكر بعقل واحد .. يمكنك ان تفكر
بعدة عقول ..
فلا تتردد في استشارة من تثق به.

Saturday 7 September 2019

12 قانون

هنالك 12 قانون في علم النفس اذا فهمتها وبدات بتطبيقها ستغير حياتك..

1- "قانون الراحة النفسية" .. الانسحاب من الفوضى لا يقدر بثمن.

2- "قانون الذكاء العقلي" .. التجاهل يعيد كل شخص الى حجمه الطبيعي مهما كان.

3- "قانون الاستغناء" .. ليس كل ما تستغني عنه خسارة ، بعض الأمور الاستغناء عنها بداية افضل.

4- "قانون تطوير الذات" .. أوجد لك مكان في القمة ففي القاع إزدحام شديد.

5- "قانون إثبات الذات" .. قم بين حين وحين بتحديث قوانينك واسلوبك حتي تصبح واضحاً ومميزاً للجميع.

6- "قانون التمييز" .. أن تبدع باسلوب وانت في قمة الاسترخاء ويقلدك الجميع.

7- "قانون التحدي" .. أن توجد لك مكانا بين الكبار ، ويعترف به.

8- "قانون إدارة الوقت" .. كن كالسفينة التي تمشي بين الامواج بالعلم والمعرفة.

9- "قانون الأهداف" .. حياة من غير هدف ، مثل جسد من غير روح ، الاثنين ليس لهما قيمة .

10- "قانون الوعي" .. إن لم تدرك أخطائك فلن تتعلم الصواب.

11- "قانون التعلم" .. إن لم تتألم لن تتعلم.

12- "قانون التغيير" .. إن لم تتغير فأنت تخسر حياتك.

Saturday 24 August 2019

شو و توين و كوفي

في حديث بين مارك توين وجورج برنارد شو:
"إن فلان قد تزوج بالأمس، فردّ
(جورج برنارد شو): إنه يستحق الزواج، لم أكن أطيقه"

إذا شعرت بأنك قليل الأدب فأنت مؤدب
لأن قليلي الأدب لا يشعرون. - مارك توين

لا تغضب إذا انفجر البالون في وجهك ، فأنت من نفخه وأعطاه أكبر من حجمه وكذلك بعض البشر.
- مارك توين

الشجاعةُ هي مقاومةُ الخوف و التحكم به
وليست عدم الخوف. - مارك توين

إننا نُحب كُل شخص يقول لنا رأيهُ بصراحة ،
 إذا كان هذا الرأي يتفق مع رأينا. - مارك توين

واهمون وخائبو أملِ ، أولئك الذين يقضون
 فترة الحياة يحصدون ويكدسون المزيد من الثروة أكثر مما يحتاجون ، ليكتشفوا بعد فوات الأوان ، أن كُل المال الذي في العالم لن يشتري حبّة من السعادة.
 - مارك توين

عودةُ الزّمن للوَراء: أشْهر أمنيةٍ اتّفقت
عليْها البشريّة... - مارك توين

ليس من العدل أن تطلب من الآخرين ،
 ما لست مستعداً لفعله. - مارك توين

معظم الناس لا يستمعون بهدف الفهم
 ولكن يستمعون بهدف الرد. - ستيفن كوفي

أن تكون شخصًا يثق فيه الناس أعظم من
أن تكون شخصًا يحبه الناس. - ستيفن كوفي

بدلًا من أن تُبادر بالهجوم على الشخص الناجح، بادر في أن تصبح أكثر نجاحًا منه... ذلك هو الفرق بين الحقد والطموح. - ستيفن كوفي

الرّياحُ قدرٌ من الله، وتوجيهُ الشّراعِ
 من عملِ يدَيك. - ستيفن كوفي

اذا رأيت شخصاً أفضل منك بشيء ، فاعلم
أنه يفعل شيء لا تفعله أنت. - مارك توين

لتتخلص من خوفك ، افعل أكثر ما يثير رعبك.
- مارك توين

The Dog and the Donkey

​​🐶The Dog and the Donkey

Once upon a time , there lived a washerman in the town . He had two pets-a dog and a donkey. The dog used to keep watch on his house the whole day long. The donkey used to carry the washerman’s load to and from the riverside.

One night the washerman was sleeping soundly and a theif came into the house. The dog too was fast asleep. So, he did not bark at the thief. But the donkey was awake. He saw the theif and thought toawaken his master. So, he began to bray loudly . The theif ran away in fear. On listening the braying of the donkey, the washerman could not sleep. He came out and could not understand why he was braying. To make him quite, he started beating the donkey with a stick. But the washerman’s house was saved.

MORAL :Mind your own business.

Friday 16 August 2019

متقوليش يا لاسع


متقوليش يا لاسع!
ده جملة سمعتها في حوار قدامي مابين الاسطي مجدي السواق وصاحب محل عطارة وعلافة مشهور وكان بيحاسبه حساب الاسبوع وعايز ياكل عليه حقه فبيهزر معاه وقاله:خد دول يالاسع والأسبوع الجاي ازودك
فرد متقوليش يالاسع وهاتهم وشوف لك سواق من اول الاسبوع الجاي
ومشي وروح بيته وفعلا بعد الاجازة الأسبوعية منزلش مع العطار وابتدأ كل يوم يسأل في المنطقة علي شغل؛في اللي كان يقوله تعالي اتفضل ويقابله حلو في الاول وبعد ٣ايام بقينا نسمع في المنطقة نفس المشكلة ويقوله متقوليش يالاسع تاني ومن الاسبوع الجاي شوف لك حد غيري!
ولما سمعتها اخر مرة صعب عليا فاتكلمت معاه وقلت له:يااسطي مجدي انت مليكش شغل هنا في المنطقة تاني لان الناس هنا مش كويسة ونصحته بمكتب العمل يروح يسال علي وظيفة هناك
وبعد٥سنين وانا بتمشي في وسط البلد ببص علي المحلات لاقيت الاسطي مجدي طالع من محل كبير مشهور وبيكلم صاحب المحل وبيقوله:خلاص النوعين دول هجيبهملك المرة الجاية وجرب براند الشامبو الجديد ده هيعجبك جدا،وأول مابص ولاقاني اخدني بالحضن وقالي:اهلًا بسبب الخير
قلتله:انت واحشني جدا طمني عليك؟
قاله:الله يبارك لك عملت زي ماانت قلت لي وربنا كرمني مع واحد كنت بشتغل معاه سواق علمني شغل المستلزمات والعطور ودلوقتي سيبته واشتغلت مع حالي.
قلتله:مبسوط؟
قاله:الحمدلله واللي ناقصني بكلم الراجل اللي كنت بسوق له واغذي بيه السوق وكفاية اني عزلت من المنطقة
#صديق وصاني علي الخاص انزلها علشان الأصدقاء يحكموا مين اللي لاسع المنطقة ولا مجدي السواق؟!

مختارات أدبية



قال ابن المقفع

أما بعد:
فإن لكل مخلوق حاجة، ولكل حاجة غاية، ولكل غاية سبيلاً
والله وقت للأمور أقدارها، وهيأ إلى الغايات سبلها،وسبب الحاجات ببلاغها
فغاية الناس وحاجاتهم صلاح المعاش والمعاد والسبيل إلى دركها العقل الصحيح
وأمارة صحة العقل: اختيار الأمور بالبصر، وتنفيذ البصر بالعزم

Wednesday 14 August 2019

تعطل المحرك


تعطل محرك سفينة عملاق فاستعان اصحاب السفينة بجميع الخبراء الموجودين، لكن لم يستطع أحد منهم معرفة كيف يصلح المحرك ..
ثم أحضروا رجل عجوز يعمل في إصلاح السفن منذ أن كان شابا كان يحمل حقيبة أدوات كبيرة معه،
وعندما وصل باشر في العمل.
فحص المحرك بشكل دقيق، من القمة إلى القاع.
كان هناك اثنان من أصحاب السفينة معه يراقبونه،
راجين أن يعرف ماذا يفعل لإصلاح المحرك.
بعد الإنتهاء من الفحص،
ذهب الرجل العجوز إلى حقيبته وأخرج مطرقة صغيرة وبهدوء طرق على جزء من المحرك.
وفوراً عاد المحرك للحياة وبعناية أعاد المطرقة إلى مكانها.
المحرك أصلح!
وبعد أسبوع استلم أصحاب السفينة فاتورة الإصلاح من الرجل العجوز
وكانت عشرة آلاف دولار!!!!
أصحاب السفينة هتفوا “هو بالكاد فعل شيئاً”
لذلك كتبوا للرجل العجوز ملاحظة تقول “رجاءاً أرسل لنا فاتورة مفصلة.”
أرسل الرجل الفاتورة كالتالي :
الطرق بالمطرقة ……………$1.00
معرفة أين تطرق……………$9999.00
إنها المعرفة والمهارة وليس الجهد
الجهد مهم، لكن معرفة أين تبذل الجهد في حياتك


معارك العمل


مره وانا في بداية حياتي المهنية بتاعي بافتح الميل لقيت واحد زميلي باعت فيا ايميل زي الزفت وبصراحة كان مكتوب بضمير قوي ... مشرحني عالأخر ... وطبعاً زي أي شاب قليل الخبرة اتضايقت جداً وخدت الموضوع على أعصابي لاسيما انه كان حاطط في الCC المدير بتاعي اللي كنت باحبه وباحترمه جداً وكان يهمني أنه دايماً يكون شايفني في صورة كويسة.

في أخر اليوم رحت متصل بالمدير وقلتله انت إيه رأيك في الميل اللي فلان بعته فيا؟ رد عليا رد غريب جداً ... قالي أحمد أنا باعرف أفرق كويس بين ايميل مكتوب علشان مصلحة الشغل وايميل مكتوب علشان يضايق واحد علشان كده انا بعد ماقريت أول سطر من الميل ده ماكملتوش ومسحته.

لما سألته طيب انت شايف أتصرف إزاي مع اللي بعت الميل ده قالي ولا تعمل حاجة. ولا كأنك قريته. هو بعت الميل ده علشان يضربك عندي وانا بأقولك أنا ماقريتوش. كبر دماغك. وختم كلامه بالنصيحة اللي عمري ماهنساها. قالي nobody can fight all his battles ... محدش يقدر يحارب كل معاركه وقالي لازم يبقى عندك الذكاء اللي يخليك تحدد أنهي معركة تدخلها وأنهي معركة تتجاهلها لأنك لو قعدت تضيع وقتك وتركيزك في معارك تافهة مش هيبقى عندك وقت ولا مجهود تركز في الحاجات اللي تطلعك لقدام.

طول مانت ماشي في حياتك هتلاقي ناس عاوزه توقعك وتشتت تركيزك ولو وقفت تشوف كل واحد من الناس دول عاوز ايه مش هتخلص. ركز في هدفك وسيب اللي يصغر دماغه مالكش دعوة بيه ماتخليهوش يستدرجك لمعركة تافهة ماحدش هيطلع منها كسبان لأنه هو ده اللي هو عاوزه بالظبط
#cpd

Tuesday 13 August 2019

Are you ready yet to waste more time getting ready !

Many days will go by, when you don't feel ready, you don't feel right and you don't know what your next move will be.
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Sometimes those days turn into weeks and those weeks turn to months. You try to find meaning in your inability to act or make a move, you try to find hope as the days slowly pass you by.
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You feel the fire within you, you know you are capable of much more. But you are trapped, paralysed by your own circumstances, your own state of mind and your past wounds.
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You try to rise up, you fight yourself and you fight everything that the universe presents you, because somewhere along the line you have refused to let go, to move on and accept that your time will come.
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You may be licking your wounds, healing your soul or simply going through the motions before that distinct feeling of pure inspiration comes upon you and flows through your heart and soul with the intensity of lava bursting out the top of the most ferocious of volcanos.
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You wake up, before the sun has even begun to rise and your mind, your body and your spirit sends you one message:
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"It's time to go again."
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And in that moment, you suddenly feel the weight of your fears, your doubts and the pain you've been carrying, leave your being as you embrace your true power within.
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You feel the fire burning brighter than it ever has before. You find a deep sense of peace within your own soul, that one can only find through certainty. The fog has gently lifted and for the first time you are able to see with great levels of clarity and hope.
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You feel alive once more, you see things for what they can be, not what they could have been. You know now, that you have been on a journey of the soul and have learnt many lessons that will serve you well on the next stage of the journey.
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You realize that your time has come. That you have the power to act and you are free to move forward with great certainty and with great faith.
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The moments when you can't find a way, are the moments that prepare you for the way. Trust, that in due course you will find your power within and you will wake up one day and realize "it's time to go again..."
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May that moment be upon you today.

#thought @motivism

Friday 19 July 2019

If you like someone, do not keep it a secret. Be the sunshine everyone needs !

 got that JOB.

I was so excited !

That dishwasher job did not pay very much but was enough to put food on the table for my parents and me, and pay our rent.

I was 21, a dishwasher with a masters in nuclear physics because of my poor English at the time.

I learned then

- that some people will look down on you, and some will not, that however successful we become we should not look down on anyone

- that you are not your job

- that you can be happy, creative and valued no matter what you do

One day the owner introduced me to someone - that someone shook my dishwasher's hand, and was very gracious and polite.

Later I found out he was an Executive Vice President at Morgan Stanley, a big company.

That handshake touched my heart for the rest of my life.

I do not remember his words, but I remember how he made me feel, and how that handshake changed me.

As a former dishwasher I say - do good, be humble, be remembered

Thursday 18 July 2019

In order to boost your sales

In sales, everyone is always looking to get an edge. Sometimes it’s an edge over your competition, and other times it’s an edge over your own previous performance. In any case, salespeople are always looking to grow. The outcome is black and white; either you hit the goals you’ve set for yourself, or you don’t. The only question is what you are doing day to day in order to get there.

Of course, there are lots of big things salespeople (and their leaders) can do to ensure better performance and growth. You can find many of them on this blog. But there are also small adjustments that you can make immediately that are going to help your performance. And if you incorporate them into your routine, they can only help. Oftentimes, it’s just a matter of remembering to do them everyday. Here are five small adjustments you can make today to close more deals:

1. Pump yourself up before calls/meetings
Enthusiastic and optimistic salespeople generally close more deals because their attitude is contagious. A prospect would rather deal with a happy, energetic person than a morose and sleepy one. So before you sit down to make calls or go to sales meetings, get yourself in the right state of mind. Different people have different methods. Some like to listen to music to pump themselves up, use positive-self talk, or even change their posture (which has been proven to affect confidence). Whatever works for you, spend a few minutes getting yourself ready before the important parts of your day. This small adjustment can make a huge difference.

2. Make a priority checklist
Lots of us are guilty of coming into the office every day and winging it, instead of planning out our day beforehand. This can work for some people, but having a checklist of the things that move the needle can be a helpful way to make sure that you’re using your time effectively. Think about the activities that make the greatest difference for you. They’re likely to involve prospecting, pitching, and follow-up. If you write these activities out every morning (or even the night before) and then spend your day working your way down the list, you’re likely to see an huge difference in your closed deals.

3. One more call
Leading sales trainer Jeb Blount, author of Fanatical Prospecting, has a great bit of sales advice that doesn’t take months to implement. It’s called One More Call, and it’s simple – when you’re ready to pack up and go home for the night, pick up the phone and make one more call before you leave. It might not sound like a big deal, but this one call could make a huge difference if it ends up turning into a deal. Try it, you just might find that this “bonus” call picks up and wants to talk about how you can help.

4. Put yourself in the prospect’s shoes
You’re probably thinking that every salesperson should already be doing this, and you’re right, they should be. But most aren’t, because we’re in a constant battle to get out of our own heads. Try making it a point to put yourself in the prospect’s shoes before every sales call and meeting. Really think about their concerns and their needs, and what they want to hear from you. You’ll be surprised at just how much of a difference this adjustment will make in what you ask and in what you say.

5. Just listen
Most salespeople understand that listening is one of the things that sets great salespeople apart from mediocre ones. But it still seems to be a difficult concept for many of us to stick with. Whether it’s because some people love the sound of their own voice, hate awkward silences, or simply think that continuing to talk on and on will interest the prospect and close the deal, not being able to listen is a killer in sales. So today, try pumping yourself up before calls and meetings, make a checklist of the most important things you want to get done, make one more call before you leave, put yourself in the prospect’s shoes, and, throughout it all, make sure that you listen to your prospects. You’ll quickly begin to see the impact that a few small adjustments can make over the long-term.

Saturday 6 July 2019

محاضرة ألقاها بيل جيتس أغنى رجال العالم ومؤسس شركة Microsoft" تحت عنوان:


10 قواعد لا تدرسها في المدرسة :-

القاعدة 1 :
الحياة غير عادلة ، فعود نفسك عليها !

القاعدة 2:
العالم لايهتم بحبك لذاتك فهو ينتظر فقط إنجازاتك حتى قبل أن تهنئ نفسك !

القاعدة 3 :
لن تحصل على 60.000 $ سنويا فقط بمجرد أنك تخرجت من الجامعة !

القاعدة 4 :
إذا ظننت أن لديك معلم قاس معك, فاعلم أنه ينتظرك صاحب عمل !

القاعدة 5 :
العمل في مطعم لا يحط من قيمتك، أجدادك لهم نظرة أخرى لها، فهم يسمونها : فرصة !

القاعدة 6 :
إذا أخطأت، فهي ليست غلطة والديك. توقف عن اللوم وتعلم من أخطائك !

القاعدة 7 :
قبل أن تولد، أبويك لم يكونا مملين كما هما الآن. فقد أصبحا هكذا لأنهما :
* دفعا ثمن احتياجاتك
* قاما تنظيف ثيابك
* و قاما بتعليمك !

القاعدة 8 :
قبل إنقاذ الغابات الاستوائية ، إبدأ بترتيب غرفتك و كل ما بحولك !

القاعدة 9 :
الحياة غير مقسمة إلى فصول ..... و الصيف ليس بفترة عطلة
و القليل من أصحاب العمل هم على استعداد لمساعدتك : إنها مسؤوليتك !

القاعدة 10 :
التلفاز ليس هو الحياة الحقيقية
ففي الحياة الحقيقية : الناس يتركون المقاهي و يقصدون العمل ....

Friday 5 July 2019

🍃 *حقائق مذهله*



1- الشخص الذكي والواثق من نفسه لا يعاكس الفتيات وفقا لدراسة نفسية ويجد ان هذه التصرفات تافهة وصبيانيه ..

2 - أصعب اللحظات وأشدها قسوة في حياة الفرد هي انتظاره لحدث يعلم من الأساس أنه لن يحصل أبداً ..

3 - حسب دراسة من علم النفس فإنه عندما تقع في حب شخص ما يصبح كل شيء فيه جميلآ وتراه خاليا من العيوب ..

4 - عندما تقرأ فأنك لن تستوعب ما قرأته الا عندما تسمع صوت داخلي ..

5 - يقول العلماء بأن الدماغ ينسى عمدًا بعض الذكريات من أجل تجنب الحمل الزائد للمعلومات ..

6- حوالي ٤٤% من الطلاب عندما يبدأون بالمذاكرة ومراجعة دروسهم يشعرون بالملل ويكرهون أنفسهم فيتوقفون عن المذاكرة في أقل من ٥ دقائق ..

7- المزاج السيء صباحاً غالباً ما يكون عرضاً من أعراض الإكتئاب أكثر من كونه حالةً مزاجية مؤقتة ..

8- اللون الأزرق يجعلُك تشعر بالراحة لهذا مجرد النظر إلى السماء صافية أو البحر أو أي واجهة زرقاء لمدة من الزمن قد تتغير نفسيتك للافضل فورا سبحان الله خلق فأبدع ..

9 - الضحك ينشّط عملية التنفس ويزيد مقدار الأكسجين في الدم ويحسن الدورة الدموية وتتوسع اوعية الدم القريبة من سطح الجلد ولهذا يحمر وجه الأنسان ..

10- التظاهر بأنك واثق من نفسك يمكن ان يؤثر بشكل إيجابي على كيمياء الدماغ لتغيير حياتك وتصبح واثق من نفسك فعلاً في كل أمورك ..

Thursday 4 July 2019

كن ايجابيا

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ْ❜ ومثلنا.. مهما تزايد حِملُنا لا ننثني لا ننحني نبقى على اليأسِ نثور. ْ❛



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ْ❜ يجب علينا أن نتعلم كيف نُشرق مع الشمس، تاركين الليل الذي بداخلنا للأمس. صباح الخير. ْ❛



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Sunday 30 June 2019

مقولات هامة

الابتسامة تذيب الجليد وتنشر الارتياح وتبلسم الجرح؛ إنها مفتاح العلاقات الإنسانية الصافية. - فولتير

لكي ترتاح ، تعلم أن تختصر في كل شيء ، الكلام ، المشاعر ، وأحياناً بعض الناس.
- جيكوس مارتن

السلام أهم من العدالة؛ فالسلام لم يخلق من أجل العدالة، بل على العكس خلقت العدالة من أجل السلام. - مارتن لوثر

Saturday 29 June 2019

What Is The Difference Between Management And Leadership?



Leadership and management are both necessary, but they are different.

Leadership and management are both necessary competencies that add institutional value. Neither is superior or inferior to the other; they are just different. We manage things such as programs, budgets, contracts, projects and processes, but we should be leading people. The idea of ‘managing’ people just sounds demeaning in the 21st century. Many of us wear both hats, but we need to understand the difference so that we appropriately flex within and between the two roles.

Has your boss or supervisor ever said any of this to you – I am your manager; I am managing you; or I manage ten people? What did it make you think? How did this make you feel?

In business school and graduate school, I learned that management is the act or skill of directing, controlling, handling, deciding, overseeing, etc. Not even one of these words fits in with anything I want another person doing to me or for me. How about you? I also learned that leadership is about influencing, developing, coaching, guiding, mentoring or supervising people. So we need to be leading people and managing all that other stuff. The distinction is real and it matters.

If the ‘experts’ in the field keep getting this wrong how can we expect mid-level managers and executives to get this right? The perpetual lack of understanding with these concepts is holding people back in their careers, and it is negatively impacting organizational success.

There are people who are great leaders but horrible managers, and there are people who are great managers and horrible leaders. How can this be? Because these two competencies require different skillsets. Too often hiring managers want to hire someone to lead but they focus the entire job analysis and interview on management and vice versa.

If you want to hire a manager, define the competencies for that role based on what management is all about. If you want to hire a leader, define the competencies for that role based on what leadership is all about. If you want to hire someone who will be competent in both, be sure to outline what that looks like then create an appropriate position description and ask the right questions during the interview.

Management is typically reflected via one’s title, but leadership isn’t.

One can hold the title of manager and never actually have staff or employees under his direction because he is (shall I say it again) ‘managing’ a program, a budget, a project or an enterprise that he actually has control over and needs to direct, handle and oversee effectively.

Management happens with one or more decision makers for a particular unit/department/division/organization where there exists a ‘thing’ to be managed, controlled, handled, directed or overseen. The unit/department/division/organization has a budget, program, service, contract or process (a thing) to be managed. However, the people within the respective section need to be (and I assert they prefer to be) led.

To be a leader one needs others whom he can influence or impact in some way (some people call these followers). It is not a requirement that these people be under his direct span of control in the normal supervisory lines, but they must be within his circle of influence. Leaders can – and do – lead down, across and up. We lead (influence) subordinates, colleagues, team members and even our superiors. This is why we now understand that leadership can and does happen at every level within an organization.

Leadership is about helping ordinary people get extraordinary results. It is about developing critical thinking, problem solving and process improvement skills in others and giving them the opportunity to apply these skills and have input on decisions. Leaders are charged to ask the questions that compel others (at every level) to consider choices, actually think and then provide recommendations to others.

Leadership is not about titles. It is not about seniority. It is not about status, and it is not about management. Leadership is about power and the ability to know when and how to use it to influence the people around you to do and become more! Transformational leadership is about using your actions to elevate others and put them on their path to greatness.

You can be a leader and never actually formally supervise employees, and you can be a manager and never actually have formal authority over a staff or team. It is important to note, however, that one’s position title is not a reflection of whether he is capable of doing either (leading or managing) very well.

The wrap up: Manage things and lead people.

Manage things, even manage yourself, but when it comes to other people, we prefer words like lead, supervise, coach, guide, mentor, etc. It keeps the perspective away from trying to handle, oversee, direct or worse – control – other individuals. That would not be appropriate (except in extreme circumstances – safety, etc.).

I educate students, facilitate workshops for professionals at all levels and provide consulting and executive coaching, and one thing I have been pushing against for 20 years is this notion that we would ever actually be able to effectively ‘manage’ anyone. Individual people have their own minds, and they get to make their own choices. We can try to influence and shape those choices and behaviors through leadership, but it is not appropriate to attempt to direct and control them – this is what management is supposed to be doing with “things.”

The whole notion of an ever-increasing knowledge workforce where people are being hired and paid to think strategically, align themselves with organizational missions and then deliver meaningful outcomes for internal and external stakeholders is predicated on the idea (and hopefully practice) of really having leaders develop other leaders and pull from the talent all around them (above, across and beneath their own positions of authority).

Remember when you attempt to ‘manage’ other people, you are in effect limiting or removing their choices – their power. And when you do this, you end up losing everything (all the experience, education, training and brilliance that you hired them for in the first place). Manage the things you need to manage, but lead the people you are supposed to lead.

Friday 28 June 2019

​​🍂The Deer and the Vine


Two Huntsmen were riding around when they saw a Deer and started chasing it.

The Deer knew that the Huntsmen would kill him, so he ran as fast as he could to save his life. He saw a thick Vine, nearby and hid himself behind the large, leafy Vine leaves. The Huntsmen were riding on very fast horses and were very close behind. They were going so fast that they went paB13st the Vine and the Deer, without stopping.

After a little while, the Deer could not hear the Huntsmen any more. He peeked out slowly and could not see anyone close by.

The Deer thought he was safe. All the running had made him hungry. What could he eat? He saw the Vine and nibbled at a leaf.

The Vine shook as the leaves rustled. But right then, the Huntsmen were returning back and they spotted the Deer at once. One of the men got down on the ground and shot the Deer with an arrow.

The dying Deer said to himself, “It serves me right. If I had not eaten what saved me, I would have been safe right now!”

When we harm someone who helps us, we are harmed ourselves.

One day

One day you're going to jump out of bed and decide to take things to the next level and blow the world away with your potential!

You're not going to worry about what other people think or say!

You're not going to worry about your current circumstances or what you're going through!

You're not even going to worry about your next pay cheque or your bills & debts!

You're just going to jump out of bed and be overcome with passion and a sense of purpose that makes you feel the greatest sense of certainty and power!

You're going to look in the mirror with tears of joy in your eyes and declare once and for all that you're never ever going to play small with your life, dreams and your potential again!

You're going to get out there and DO IT! You won't care if it is even possible or if it's ever going to work out because you're so far beyond committed that nothing or no one can get in your way or stop you!

You're going to OWN your life and you're going to walk outside your house, look back at your life and run like you've never ever run before and you're never going to stop running until you finally become everything you wanted to be!

I haven't stopped running... Because I waited so long just for that one day to arrive!

I wasted years living in doubt and fear and worrying about what people would think if I stood up and started talking and sharing my gifts with the world...Now that one day is my everyday!

Don't wait for one day. Make that day... Today!
#Thought @motivism

Success

people rarely become successful if they are comfortable in their current situation, no matter how good or bad it is. However, if someone is in physical, mental, or emotional pain from their situation, they are much more likely to take action, take risks, and work towards seemingly crazy goals.

#It is this pain that drives people to succeed.

Wednesday 26 June 2019

Stop being polite.

Stop being polite.
It hinders someone's #growth
Not long ago, I used to reach out to #writers to get feedback for my work. The most common reply was: "Looks great. You're doing good." And that killed me every time. I didn't reach out to hear that. There are already too many people ready to say that. I reached out to get some valuable insights; some #criticism would be even better. So, when new writers reach out to me these days, I try not to sound polite. I let the truth out in a straightforward manner. You need to do the same for your industry juniors. When a junior designer or a developer or an architect or a marketer confides in you to know how s/he can improve, you can do two things: ➡️ Tell them where they're wrong or what they need to improve. If they're not good at it, just let them know. It's better that they know now and improve than having a false impression of them being good. ➡️ Tell them you don't have time to review, rather than saying that they're doing good. Well, you don't owe them anything. So, if you don't want to do a proper review, just don't. Also, remember, you weren't always where you stand today. You have a lot of people to thank. Lot of people whose name you don't even remember today. The best way to pay back is to help your juniors.

Standing Out


🍂Aesop at Play



Once, Aesop was playing with some children in his neighbourhood. He was running around and laughing out with those children.

While Aesop played, a Man from Athens, who knew him, walked by the playfield. He saw Aesop playing and was shocked to see his childish play.

The Man laughed aloud at Aesop and said, “Aesop, such kind of play does not suit your age and wisdom. What are you trying to teach these children? Don’t you have better things to do?”B18

hearing the Man’s words, Aesop did not lose his cool. He smiled and ran back to the field to bring a bow. The Man was curious to see what Aesop would do next.

Aesop then tied a string around the bow and kept it at the Man’s feet. Then he said, “Dear friend, if this bow is always kept strained, it would lose its elasticity. And some day, it will snap. We have to sometimes use it or let it go free so that it will be fitter for use when it is wanted!” The Man understood what Aesop said.

Physical activity is important for an active and fresh mind.

Monday 24 June 2019

Humanity

الإنسانية نهر من النور يسير من أودية الأزل إلى بحر الأبد. - جبران خليل جبران

Humanity is a river of light running from the valleys of eternity to the sea of ​​eternity. - Khalil Gibran

Your thoughts and opinions are valuable... 

Saturday 22 June 2019

Open discussion

Imagine you were in the desert and had an oasis that gave you just enough water to survive but never enough to be completely fulfilled. Sure, your oasis sucks a big bag of rocks, but you would likely never leave to look for another oasis if it meant risking your small-yet-shitty, comfortable oasis. In fact, the only thing that could ever push you to find something better was your oasis drying up or an invasion of poisonous snakes or something equally as terrifying or detrimental to your health. It’s a sad thought, but the only way most people achieve true motivation to improve their lives (in a massive way) is when their oasis has dried up and they are in such a bad spot that they have to make a change.


Friday 21 June 2019

Awesome Quote

"There are no limits to what you can accomplish, except the limits you place on your own thinking."

#Challenge_Yourself

Quotes

"Any success that happens at the expense of your health, your family or your character is not real success."

Your Dream

​​:fallen_leaf:Keep Your Dream
I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Isidro. He had let me use his horse ranch to put on fund-raising events to raise money for youth at risk programs.

The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, “I want to tell you why I let you use my horse ranch. It all goes back to a story about a young man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training horses. As a result, the boy’s high school career was continually interrupted. When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted to be and do when he grew up.”

“That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, the stables, and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.”

He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he handed it into his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, See me after class.’

The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, Why did I receive an F?

The teacher said, This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you’ll have to pay large stud fees. There’s no way you could ever do it. Then the teacher added, If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will reconsider your grade.

The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father what he should do. His father said, Look, son, you have to make up your own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for you. Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same paper, making no changes at all.

He stated, “You can keep the F and I’ll keep my dream.”

Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, “I tell you this story because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the fireplace.” He added, “The best part of the story is that two summers ago that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.” When the teacher was leaving, he said, “Look, Monty, I can tell you this now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During those years I stole a lot of kids dreams. Fortunately, you had enough gumption not to give up on yours.”

Moral: Don’t let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. No Dream is too big or too small when one works hard to live it. One should always try making dreams come true no matter what.

Attitude

In a forest, there were an Olive Tree and a Fig Tree. The Olive Tree was very beautiful. It was very proud of its beauty, therefore it never spoke to the Fig Tree kindly.

One day, the Olive Tree said to the Fig Tree, “I have leaves on me throughout the year. You are not evergreen and do not have leaves on you in the month of autumn. I am prettier than you.”

The Fig Tree never said anything to the Olive Tree and always quietly listened to it. Soon winter came and it started getting cold. One day, it started snowing Big flakes of snow were falling on the ground. The branches of the Olive Tree had lots of leaves; therefore, the snow could not pass through its branches. The snow settled on the Olive Tree. The branches of the Olive Tree could not take the weight of the snow. The branches started falling to the ground one-by-one, spoiling the beauty of the Tree.

The Fig Tree did not have any leaves, so the snow easily passed through its branches and did not injure the Fig Tree.


Changing our attitude gives us hope to live a better life.

Patience

ْ❜ أحيانًا يجب أن تمر بالأسوأ حتى تصل للأفضل. كن صبورًا. ْ❛

"Sometimes you need to go through the worst to reach the best. Just be patient"

Courage

ْ❜ إن المرء لا يمكن أن ينجح إلا إذا واجه نفسه وواجه الحياة وواجه الآخرين، بشجاعة. ْ❛


" One can't succeed, unless you can courageously confront life and others "

 رافِق مَن يشبُهك، وحاوِر من يحترمُك، واستشِر من يحبُّك... وتعايَش مع الجميعِ بالحُسنى